Nothing hurts so much as failed expectations, but certainly also by anything a thought capable mind as vividly as if by awakened to explore the nature of things and his own conduct to the source of his to detect erroneous conditions and possibly in the future to guess correctly.
- Benjamin Franklin
Yes, caught, once again I begin with a quote and it is once again a little more. I hope that the diligent reader had expected nothing else - what did not deliberately constructed transition and allusion to the subject, which I would like to devote myself to my current and last for now (see post of 22 September) blog entry: Expectations.
we do not expect anything all? The fact that the cloistered perhaps better than has become a three, because we've also got sooo late to learn in the night for that? It will be hot tomorrow because it has been announced in the report? That we wake up tomorrow? Or maybe just want to breathe? Some expectations are natural. How are such that you breathe just that you can run, that the earth the next day still exists. Some expectations are fulfilled, some not. Some expectations inspire, some tear to the ground. In any case she has any man. Somewhere - consciously or unconsciously.
There are expectations in all areas of life. I do not know how it looks at you, I for one have already realized that my expectations generally above average (to) are high for humanity. This makes fast alone, so they are reluctant to go and make compromises. Just as it is colloquially stupid lives easier, I also believe that it can be with low expectations and demands more readily to the world. If
one is completely satisfied, for example, if a friend can only reports when all other just do not have time. Or, if you look up to heels in love, even though the other only added little serious interest shows. Or if you have a small piece of birthday cake gets. That's enough to that. It seems as happy doing it really fast. But it falls not to the self-worth? Low requirements, lower emotional level, lower intelligence, lower value? I can not judge. I've always have high expectations and not only my surroundings, but also (or especially?) To myself expectations keep the hope and balance but often dangerously on the brink of bitter disappointment. Expectations can be of different size and finish rarely true. Most probably the expectation itself is the most beautiful. Each person must determine how quickly a fall can be. For how quickly one is sad, because in one of his friends saw something deeper than mere friendship. There was a relationship, how to find them only rarely, of which one is so glad to feel it. Where the joy is already fading when she first noticed properly. Because you seem to have this friend is only second choice after all. It has been expected so much from this friendship ... and was disappointed and GE. The expectation was once again too high.
For how quickly one is how to proceed if the future does not seem to want, how you want it yourself. If you have everything planned, only here the school, there to study, then work there as this and that, migrate, a lot of money, Ha
us, children, garden, swimming pool and a dog. Maybe a cat. Or two. Or both. Or all. But Fate did not work well with one, you think, because the plan is being destroyed unscrupulously: another city, another way of everything else expected when. It does not understand and will not see it. And of course you're not stubborn. The expectation was once again too high. For how quickly one is lost when everything is just different. If you expect to be happy. If it is expected that the expectations are - somehow, no matter how unlikely they appear one in mind. I would not say would expect and disappointed. But expect with caution and always have a cushion here, which lets you land softly, you should fall. The truth and reality can hit one hard in the face. And at some point no longer heal the wounds. And you do not imagine that they have no expectations - you have it.
With these words I say goodbye (for now) have all of the loyal readers, the (sounds stupid GetExtender), I sometimes quite tiring drivel more or less done regularly. Many thanks to each of you and many, many thanks for the compliments really pathetic about this blog. Would I do not sit behind my monitor and now it does not and we would now face, I would hug you all now. But in the era of the internet, knuddels, duddel schmuddels.de and something will work out well by virtually all excellent ideas, you feel so depressed. Thank you. Also for the constructive criticism.
This is not the end! I will try as soon as possible to continue writing. Therefore - as already written in the previous blog - stay tuned! I'm not gone, just somewhere else, haha. A grand finale of course a must and not, as it should be different, this should be a quote:
to engage in the clouds and feel no emptiness, that is happiness.
- Carmen Ritter
